ashok & geeta's wedding

Day 1
Tuesday, April 28, 2026
sirohi
India
Day 2
Wednesday, April 29, 2026
sirohi,udwariya
India
Day 3
Thursday, April 30, 2026
sirohi , udwariya
India
About the hosts
ashok & geeta's story
in this wedding you fill A Rajasthani hindu Chaudhary wedding is a grand celebration of heritage and community. It begins with Bhaat, where maternal uncles bring gifts, followed by Pithi (haldi) and Ratijka, a night of folk songs. The groom, wearing a colorful Safaa and carrying a sword, leads the Baraat to the venue. ​At the entrance, the Toran Marana ritual signifies his entry as a protector. The Pheras are unique, often consisting of four rounds around the sacred fire. Culturally, the wedding is defined by the Dhol, Ghoomar dance, and a feast of Dal Baati Churma. ​The attire is iconic: women wear vibrant Ghagras and men sport traditional turbans. These weddings are not just family events but village-wide festivals, emphasizing social bonds and agrarian roots. The atmosphere is a mix of rustic charm, warrior-like pride, and deep-seated Rajasthani traditions.please welcome and join our cultural program
Day 1Tuesday, April 28, 2026sirohi
Starting time (approximately): 8:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
pat ganesh sthapna and haldi
​Ganpati Sthapana: The wedding officially begins with the installation of Lord Ganesha’s idol to ensure the ceremonies proceed without obstacles. ​**Pithi Lagana (Haldi): A paste of barley, turmeric, and ghee is applied to the bride and groom. A unique custom here is that after this, they are often not allowed to leave their respective houses until the wedding day. ​Banori: The bride and groom are invited to the homes of close relatives for a meal. They are often taken there in a small procession with traditional songs. ​2. The Evening Festivities ​Ratijka: This is a night-long celebration before the wedding day. Women of the family stay awake, singing folk songs (Mangal Geet) and performing traditional dances to invoke the blessings of deities and ancestors. ​Mehndi: While the bride gets intricate henna designs, in the Chaudhary community, even the groom often applies a small amount of mehndi as a symbol of auspiciousness.
Day 2Wednesday, April 29, 2026sirohi,udwariya
Starting time (approximately): 7:00 PM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
pritibhoj and bandoli
​4. Cultural Highlights & Entertainment ​Folk Music: No Chaudhary wedding is complete without the dhol and traditional songs. You will often hear the famous "Chaudhary" folk song (popularized by Coke Studio but rooted in Rajasthani soil). ​Ghoomar & Kalbelia: While the men might engage in a Gair dance during the Baraat, the women perform the Ghoomar—a graceful dance involving twirling in long, colorful ghagras. ​Traditional Feast: The food is hearty and rustic, featuring Rajasthani staples like Dal Baati Churma, Ker Sangri, and various sweets made from desi ghee. ​Important Cultural Nuances ​The Safaa (Turban): The color and style of the turban are a matter of great pride. For weddings, bright colors like saffron, red, or multi-colored leheriya are common.
Day 3Thursday, April 30, 2026sirohi , udwariya
Starting time (approximately): 6:00 AM
Venue and host contact details will be disclosed upon booking.
barat and wedding
​3. The Wedding Day (Main Event) ​Nikasi & Baraat: The groom, dressed in a traditional sherwani and a safaa (Rajasthani turban), mounts a decorated horse. He often carries a sword, a nod to the community’s historical warrior roots. ​Toran Marana: Upon reaching the bride's house, the groom hits a wooden "Toran" (hanging decoration) at the entrance with a sword or a stick, symbolizing his readiness to take on the responsibilities of the household. ​Aarti & Thapa: The bride's mother welcomes the groom with an aarti and sometimes playfully pulls his nose (a lighthearted tradition to remind him of his new family's dignity). ​Pheras: In Rajasthani Chaudhary tradition, the couple usually takes four pheras (rounds) around the holy fire in the mandap. In many sub-communities, the bride leads the first three rounds, and the groom leads the final one.