The Processional: Music plays as the wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen) and finally the couple walks down the aisle. ​The Welcome: The officiant (the person leading the wedding) says a few words about love and marriage. ​The Vows: The couple makes promises to each other. ​The Rings: You exchange wedding bands as a symbol of your commitment. ​The Kiss: The officiant declares you married, and you share your first kiss! ​The Recessional: The couple walks back up the aisle together while guests cheer.