In Tamil culture, betrothal (nichayathartham / நிச்சயதார்த்தம்) is a formal engagement ceremony where the families of the bride and groom confirm the marriage alliance. It involves exchanging gifts, performing rituals, and formally announcing the wedding date. Elders bless the couple, symbolizing the union of two families. This event is considered an important step before the wedding, ensuring mutual agreement and commitment.

1.Sumangali Prarthanai A ritual where married women (sumangalis) bless the bride-to-be for a prosperous married life. 2.Kashi Yatra The groom pretends to renounce worldly life and become a saint, but the bride’s father convinces him to marry instead, symbolizing his transition to household life. 3.Oonjal (Swing Ceremony) The bride and groom sit on a decorated swing, fed by elders with milk and banana, symbolizing the ups and downs of married life. 4.Kanyadanam & Mangalya Dharanam The bride’s father formally gives her hand to the groom (Kanyadanam), followed by the groom tying the sacred thaali (mangalsutra) around her neck amidst Vedic chants and blessings. 5.Saptapadi (Seven Steps) The couple takes seven symbolic steps around the sacred fire, signifying their vows of companionship and responsibility.