I am a lecturer in a non granted college which is in the process of converting into a gov. granted college. In these circumstances, my future in-laws were hesitant to finalize the marriage, despite three meetings. During my 1st meeting at their home, all went well, and we liked each other and agreed for the 2nd meeting. In the 2nd meeting, they were doubtful about my job security and salary. So I told the person who is coordinating between two families to inform them if they are doubtful we will wait for my salary to start and then will take the next step. Suddenly they agreed for the 3rd meeting at my home. The girl's relatives were not convinced about the marriage and spent 3 hours discussing it; during that time, they contacted the girl to explain the situation and ask for her advice. She firmly told them that "I like the boy and I do not need his job and salary, I will handle my future you just fix the marriage and return home. Thus this marrige was finally fixed. But the story ..